Asian Dating Secrets - The Truth About Why Western Men Love Asian Women

Dating Asian women seems to be the preference of more Western guys every single year. So what's the reason for this fascination with dating Asian women? I'm going to share with you a few major reasons and some Asian dating secrets, and they're based upon my personal experiences with Asian singles -- in America, and during my travels in Asia. I explain this in more detail on my Dating Asian Women blog, but for now, let me share a few points:

- Asian girls are more spiritually grounded, and centered, than Western women.

You'll find that most hot Asian women practice a religion, and it is a serious part of their lives. She might worship Buddha, God, the Shinto religion, or some other form of religion -- whatever it is, it gives her a sense of inner calmness and spirituality that is very hard to find in Western women. The idea of "soul searching" and worrying about your future does not exist in Asian cultures. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.

- It is customary for Asian girls to take a lot of pride in how they look.

Asian women always want to look good for their man, even if they're just stepping out to go grocery shopping. As a man, you should love this and appreciate it -- give her some money to go to the salon, because she wants to look good for YOU! They feel it's important to "stay sexy" for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they're married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.

- A hardworking nature is a normal quality of Asian women.

In Asian countries from China to Indonesia to the Philippines, it is typical for women to start helping out their families from the time when they are small children. In Western countries, where the children tend to be spoiled (or ignored), this is not the case. Asian women also believe in the idea of studying and working hard, so that their families can enjoy a brighter future.

You see this is in the Western world, among all types of immigrant communities; they'll rise at dawn every day and work hard, and build businesses, in order to help their families back home and help them to emigrate. The bottom line is, most Asian women respect the value of hard work, which means that if you start dating her, she's not going to act like a spoiled, high-maintenance "princess."

- Another reason for dating Asian women: they can truly love an older man, and appreciate what he brings to the table.

Let's not overlook this aspect of dating Asian women. In the Western world, once a guy turns 40 (or even 35!) he begins to feel that he can only date women his own age, and that younger women won't be interested in him. I'm not just talking about guys who have reached retirement age. I've known guys in their late 20s who are desperate to find a girl to settle down with, because they feel they're "getting old" and their options are decreasing. Which is crazy to me...

In Asia, it's perfectly normal for older guys to be with younger women (and I'm not just talking about the girls who can be "rented" for the night). A 40-year-old Westerner is considered young by many of the local ladies in Asia! In fact, if you're under the age of 40, some Asian women will rule you out because they feel you're not yet mature and responsible enough for a serious relationship!

It's common over in Asia to see couples with a 20 or even 30-year age difference. Really, its not even an issue. It can be a little bit weird at first, to see so many Western guys in their 40s and 50s walking around with incredibly hot younger women -- but the age difference really isn't an issue. I've seen many of these relationships work out better than you can imagine.

But I do need to add, these relationships with huge age gaps tend to run into problems when the Western guy moves the Asian girl to his own country. In Asia, the Western guy is considered to be desirable and "exotic"; once he brings his Asian girlfriend or wife back to his country, he is now competing against a million other Western guys who want to snatch her away. For older guys who are in Asia and dating hot younger Asian women, these relationships work best if they remain in Asia. These relationships can, however, stay intact after the move to a Western country, as long as the Asian woman truly loves her man and isn't only interested in his money (or getting citizenship).

This is because single asia women see older guys as being more responsible and stable than guys their own age. Elders are respected in their culture.